There's an event that happens after a wildfire has ravaged the forests, burning everything that lies in its path along the way, known as conversion.
Conversion is what happens after the fire. After everything that once was living and breathing in the lush environment is completely gone. Conversion is the vegetation that grows back after the fire. It's the new wilderness community. This community is different than the community before it. It has to be. The fire burned everything away in order to make room for this new life to grow.
This same thing happens in marriage when we are betrayed by our partner. The details might be different for each of us but the effect is the same.
The life we once knew burns to the ground. Everything that once was is suddenly different and unrecognizable. The good, the beautiful, and even the prickly weeds are suddenly gone. The damage is complete, and the effects of the fire are absolute. This change is permanent.
What happens next to the forest is referred to as an "ecological succession". This is the natural process where the land heals and recovers from the devastation the fire brought. This stage is painful and hard. And on the outside looks like nothing but smoldering ashes. But this stage is absolutely necessary for healing.
When you have experienced betrayal from your intimate partner you must go through your own wasteland in order to find recovery and healing. It too is often painful and hard. The devastation of the life you once knew can become consuming. On the outside, it can look like there is no hope to be found.
But what we often fail to recognize amid this devastation is that there is also new life blossoming before our eyes.
The Fire Lily is born from the ashes and destruction of a forest fire.
She can only bloom when the old community has been burned to the ground. She is able to do this because she is stronger than she realizes and determined to flower. Only after the fire burns the landscape can the beautiful red-orange flower emerge.
You can emerge from the fires in your life too. You can bloom after betrayal when you join the Fire Lily Collective.
Because healing happens in community.
Experience the power of a healing community of women who understand your pain and support your healing.
Empowered and compassionate group coaching calls with a certified divorce coach to empower you to move forward after divorce.
Proven tools to guide and support you as you walk your healing journey with confidence.
You probably have heard the saying "Time heals all wounds". Although this sounds nice, the reality is time does not heal all wounds.
Especially when it comes to betrayal. This is because betrayal erodes your ability to trust yourself. It destroys your sense of emotional safety by turning your world upside down. You lose your emotional security.
Without the ability to trust yourself, you can't trust those around you. You can't move forward and create a healthy and happy future when you don't feel emotionally safe and secure within yourself.
So while time does help, you need to do more than simply check off days on a calendar to confidently heal from betrayal.
You have to do the work to heal. You have to walk your healing journey and intentionally put the pieces of your life, and your heart, back together.
When you take the time to do this you create trust in yourself, you rebuild your confidence and you bloom after betrayal.
This is what the Fire Lily Collective is all about.
The Fire Lilly Collective is for divorced women looking to heal from the emotional trauma of betrayal. This is a safe place for women to come together, share, support and heal.
The program is 3 months long. The content is divided into three parts with a total of 12 modules. There are weekly "assignments" given to help apply the material.
There are weekly group coaching calls where you bring any questions, roadblocks or struggles you have to the group and receive 1:1 coaching to work through them.
When you enrolled in the Fire Lily Collective you will join a new group and be assigned a weekly call time. The group meets virtually once a week for group coaching. You will be given a zoom link after registration.
You will be emailed the modules on a weekly basis and have lifetime access to them.
You can pay a monthly rate of $297 for three months.
Or pay in full at the time of enrollment for $800